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  1. House of Blues

    April 9, 2012 by katemeadows

    Yesterday, Easter Sunday, I found myself in a strange place. The sun was blazing, and fountains were shooting up glistening water wherever I turned. Familiar cartoon faces greeted me here and there: Jiminy Cricket, Mickey Mouse, Lightning McQueen.

    We walked up a daunting flight of stairs and into a dimly lit building. We stood in line with hundreds of other people, and were soon ushered to long tables with folding wooden chairs. A tremendous stage sprawled before us, and when the show started, we were nearly knocked off our feet by the throaty walk of a bass guitar, slamming drums and a robust Gospel choir dressed in bright yellows and purples.

    We were at Easter brunch at the House of Blues in Downtown Disney.

    An eclectic place to celebrate our risen Lord, I thought.

    My husband and I had imagined a more traditional Easter holiday. We would invite some friends over, probably bake a ham, enjoy each other’s company. Sweet potatoes would be involved, for sure, as would my own pressure on myself to get the house clean by the time friends arrived.

    Then our pastor’s wife invited us – and the friends we were going to have over to our place – to this gospel show. Downtown Disney. Middle of the day. Tickets were, for our budget, expensive.

    There were a handful of reasons to say no, turn down the invite, but none of them seemed good enough. Our friends were on board. A little creative working could get us around the budget issue. We won’t be in California forever – why not spend time in the land of Disney while it’s right out our back door?

    So we went. The day was warm and the sun was powerful. I thought back to the many Easters I celebrated in western Wyoming growing up. Snow was usually still on the ground. Wearing an Easter dress was always a challenge – was it more important to wear that fun, cute little dress or not freeze?

    I looked around at the bustling sidewalks and outdoor sections of cafes at Downtown Disney. So often, because the idea was so foreign to me, I had wondered, who goes to Disney on a holiday? Who would choose to eat a holiday meal here, when a bazillion and one restaurants abound in Orange County? Well, now us, it turned out. Back in Wyoming, the afternoon might have included a ham dinner baked by Mom, complete with sweet potatoes and other fixings, pie, and plenty of chocolate Easter candy. A Scrabble game might have ensued or a long nap on the couch with a game on TV in the background.

    Here, at the House of Blues, we waited in long lines at steaming buffets. Since this was a brunch, the smorgasbord was big: bacon and waffles and omelets, fried chicken and macaroni and cheese and potatoes, even jambalaya. Some of the offerings were so unfamiliar to me I could hardly look at them – Easter, to me, has always been about tradition and familiarity – but the staples were there: ham and sweet potatoes and really good breakfast food.

    I willed away the ache of homesickness as the stout, classily-dressed women walked onto the stage. “All the way from San Diego,” I heard someone say, and I thought, here I am, all the way from Wyoming, about to clap with a southern California gospel band at Disney for Easter.

    The music was loud. So loud, I took my two-year-old son out of the show area and upstairs to a quieter part of the restaurant. But there, he danced and sang and had a grand time with the music, now less booming. “It’s just too loud,” he told me matter-of-factly, at one point. I had to smile and nuzzle his cheek.

    The steaming food was beyond any offering I would have put out for Easter. But the stuff with which I filled my plate was delicious, and I went back for more. The California sunshine that beat down on Downtown Disney was a far cry from the not-yet-spring cold I am so used to this time of year.

    But, it all added up to a new and worthwhile experience.

    Afterward, as my husband, son and I strolled among the shops around the House of Blues, I told him, “This is not a place I ever would have chosen to go to on my own for Easter. But sometimes, that’s why I think God puts various people in our lives. He surrounds us with a variety of unique personalities to stretch us and help us think outside our own comfortable little boxes.”

    Had our pastor’s wife not invited us out for this unique event, the thought to come here never would have crossed my radar. But thanks to her, I can say I’ve experienced something new. And lived a little bit more.

    *What new experience has stretched your comfort zone lately?


  2. Fitting In

    November 18, 2011 by katemeadows

    Okay, I admit it. A born-and-bred Wyoming girl who spent the last 10 years in the Midwest, I cannot figure out to live in California. I put on socks that are too cozy because the house is freezing, when the afternoon outside heats up to 70+ degrees. I stare into my closet on November days, wondering what the heck to put on. All of my jeans have holes in them. (I should fix that.) Capris and a sweater? Does that seem hypocritical? I try it. Not bad.

    One day not too long ago, I dressed my son in a button-down flannel shirt with a moose on it (for those chilly mornings). I wondered if he would get made fun of at his daycare – because, let’s face it, people just don’t wear flannel shirts here. When I went to pick him up, his teachers were in awe that he knew what a moose was. Obviously he’s not from around here, they said.

    He’s not.

    And neither am I.

    My family moved to Orange County, Calif., in July of this year. We were coming off of eight months in Kansas City (our second time living there), which was preceded by 15 months in Omaha. My husband is an engineer, and his job takes us wherever the next power-plant-related project springs up. That means we move a lot.

    Sometimes I think we scream FOREIGNERS, louder than a robust Russian in a southern Baptist church.  It’s uncomfortable (especially when my feet are sweating in those uber-warm socks when we’re at the playground and that relentless sun is in full glory). But I don’t think it’s a bad thing.

    What’s more, I think I am learning to embrace it.

    Sure, it’s easy to get caught up in everything that sucks about moving all the time. It seems like every time we start to go deep with the new relationships we’ve cultivated in one place, we are yanked to another place where we know no one. And it sure gets tiring courting Google Maps for the millionth time, trying to figure out where the heck the nearest Target is, or where my new Spanish-speaking friend, Ruth, lives.

    Yet I can’t help but think God is working. We are learning patience and respect, for ourselves and others. We are learning that most people aren’t all that bad. (You know how your mom always said never talk to strangers? Yeah, well.) We are learning the ins and outs of numerous places, what makes them tick and how they live and breathe. Western Wyoming. Southern Minnesota. Western Indiana. Kansas City. Omaha. Los Angeles.

    And you know what? All of these places are breeding grounds for opportunity. I can say with absolute confidence and honesty that I have connections – deep connections – across the country.

    And here is something else: All of the upending, adjusting, and re-orienting that come when life throws a hurricane at you is fodder for story. As my life keeps moving, I can hardly keep up with the story material that is flying my way.

    *What life experiences have proven to be wells from which you create your own work?